Think Nucleus
The feeling of being misled is quite crumbling. I lend my heart and mind, strength and more strength toward something I knew needed all of that because it was required of me and made known that it was,
and then I come to know that No, you shouldn't really be going that direction, maybe you should try something else? Like being told to build an apartment from scratch but then the bomb is dropped and your apartment should've been a house instead. Rip hair off head and scream like an ape-like lunatic.
But more often than not, the nucleus of things isn't the verb 'misleading', it could be more of the case of the person being uncertain to begin with at the moment of crucial decision making, but making decisions anyway for the sake of having to make them before it's too late.
Maybe he/she needed something else all along but couldn't quite nail it. The best thing to do then would not be to be labeled as Misled or a victim of it which makes the other person automatically Unkind & Inconsiderate,
but to know that bottomline, you know what counts now and what is truthfully desired of the person and what you ought to do now.
Yes. But it also can be the suckssssss :(
On another note, it's quite exciting sometimes traveling daily along Jalan Ampang for you can spot maybe once in three weeks, riot policemen waiting to assemble into a strategic formation in front of embassies (mostly for the country of China only, hmm) to protect the building and the people inside of protesters carrying harmless placards and intimidating them with their hand movements and unified shouts of discontent.
I'm typing at work, and it's been an hour since I got in and I haven't opened up my work files to pour over them yet because.. yes.
Before I go off for lunch, heheee..
When I was in the bus this morning from the train station to the office (it takes less than 5 minutes on average), i took out RM1 to pay the conductress my 90cent busfare. I told her where I was going and she tore out the RM 1 ticket stub for me. 'Oiii, daylight robberyyy!' resounded in my head the second she put the stub in my palm and turned her back on me. 'Bukan 90sen kah?' She heard, then she took back my green ticket and replaced it with the usual yellow for 90, and gave me back my literally small change. I scrunched up my mouth at this and thought about what happened (that has happened before). I wish she and the other conductors (and troublemaking bribing cops, overcharging cab drivers and cheating icecream men) wouldn't do that. But essentially today, she gave me back my change and I did end up paying all I needed to pay for although it took a detour in between. Get over it, you've got your money back (I'm aware that 10 cents is almost zero when it comes to monetary value but right now, the numerical value isn't of the essence).
It made me think about times when dwelling on the in-betweens of things and the negativity surrounding it, contort simple Bottomlines into unrecognizable changed shapes. And from then on it's got little to do with humility and acceptance, and all to do with Self, sucky feelings and sidelines. I am still learning to be slower in scrutinizing sidelines. Essentially, there should be more than ourselves to think about and bigger pictures and if it is to remind others that there are better ways around things, it is always wonderful when done with patience, love and much kindness.
She could've casually ignored me or throw me something like 'Ah, sorry moi... Dah koyakkan tiket tak boleh buat skali lagilah' but she did choose to start again. Alrighttt!!
I'll just go for the lunch now. The best Cantonese Fried in the area.
and then I come to know that No, you shouldn't really be going that direction, maybe you should try something else? Like being told to build an apartment from scratch but then the bomb is dropped and your apartment should've been a house instead. Rip hair off head and scream like an ape-like lunatic.
But more often than not, the nucleus of things isn't the verb 'misleading', it could be more of the case of the person being uncertain to begin with at the moment of crucial decision making, but making decisions anyway for the sake of having to make them before it's too late.
Maybe he/she needed something else all along but couldn't quite nail it. The best thing to do then would not be to be labeled as Misled or a victim of it which makes the other person automatically Unkind & Inconsiderate,
but to know that bottomline, you know what counts now and what is truthfully desired of the person and what you ought to do now.
Yes. But it also can be the suckssssss :(
On another note, it's quite exciting sometimes traveling daily along Jalan Ampang for you can spot maybe once in three weeks, riot policemen waiting to assemble into a strategic formation in front of embassies (mostly for the country of China only, hmm) to protect the building and the people inside of protesters carrying harmless placards and intimidating them with their hand movements and unified shouts of discontent.
I'm typing at work, and it's been an hour since I got in and I haven't opened up my work files to pour over them yet because.. yes.
Before I go off for lunch, heheee..
When I was in the bus this morning from the train station to the office (it takes less than 5 minutes on average), i took out RM1 to pay the conductress my 90cent busfare. I told her where I was going and she tore out the RM 1 ticket stub for me. 'Oiii, daylight robberyyy!' resounded in my head the second she put the stub in my palm and turned her back on me. 'Bukan 90sen kah?' She heard, then she took back my green ticket and replaced it with the usual yellow for 90, and gave me back my literally small change. I scrunched up my mouth at this and thought about what happened (that has happened before). I wish she and the other conductors (and troublemaking bribing cops, overcharging cab drivers and cheating icecream men) wouldn't do that. But essentially today, she gave me back my change and I did end up paying all I needed to pay for although it took a detour in between. Get over it, you've got your money back (I'm aware that 10 cents is almost zero when it comes to monetary value but right now, the numerical value isn't of the essence).
It made me think about times when dwelling on the in-betweens of things and the negativity surrounding it, contort simple Bottomlines into unrecognizable changed shapes. And from then on it's got little to do with humility and acceptance, and all to do with Self, sucky feelings and sidelines. I am still learning to be slower in scrutinizing sidelines. Essentially, there should be more than ourselves to think about and bigger pictures and if it is to remind others that there are better ways around things, it is always wonderful when done with patience, love and much kindness.
She could've casually ignored me or throw me something like 'Ah, sorry moi... Dah koyakkan tiket tak boleh buat skali lagilah' but she did choose to start again. Alrighttt!!
I'll just go for the lunch now. The best Cantonese Fried in the area.
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